samedi 23 juin 2012

Relationship and Gold Digger (When Money Euthanises Love, Trust and Truth)


A relationship is a bond which is ‘welded’ (firmly or loosely, depending on the importance attached to it) between two or more persons with the purpose of giving a meaning to the new link. A relationship can be in any sphere, irrespective of its nature.

Despite the fact that a relationship takes its foundation from elements like trust, love, mutual comprehension (understanding), compassion, compromise, passion, communication, to mention only a few, people do not hesitate to go against the above rule.

Love certainly blinds, but money, not only has it a blinding effect, but it also possess a vile power for obsession. Love is one of the constituents necessary for a true relationship to take shape; Money and Power are yet other elements which give birth to a relationship, a fake one.

Gold Digger! A Gold Digger is a person who is more focussed on a Mercenary motive, rather than that of trust and love. His/Her sole interest is monetary gain, nothing less and nothing more. A Gold Digger restricts himself/herself to the closed and small world where Money reigns.

Besides, a Gold Digger, term which I will subjectively define as being a person who evolves unscrupulously in the world of ‘Licit Prostitution’ by not bothering of not skimping on the means to get hold and to grip firmly to worldly wealth.

Moreover, the lust for money is so intense that the Gold Digger, who is also a Mercenary, prefers to sacrifice his/her existing valuable and ‘permanent’ relationship and to engage in a fake and ephemeral relationship which emerges because of the thirst for worldly materials.

As Money is the evil cause of all problems and as Money is the root for superficial pleasure, it will undoubtedly never ever procure happiness, health and intellectual wealth. Therefore, to avoid confusion, it is worth stating that pleasure is never happiness and vice versa.

As such, Gold Diggers will consciously bury their true relationship into the tombs they have dug and they prefer to enjoy with their blinded rich and ‘bling bling’ companion, with who they have webbed a relationship as fragile as the spider web itself and as illusory as the horizon.

Building a relationship with Money and Greed as its base is like:
  1. Building a palace in a marshy land which will slowly but surely engulf the dream mansion.
  2. Erecting a card palace outside the house and facing the windy weather which is undoubtedly sway away the cards in less than no time.
  3. Building a sand castle on the beach where the sea is under the influenced of a maritime storm, which will pitilessly causing the waves to ‘dissolve’ the aforesaid castle.
Consequently, always think for the long term, rather than the short term. Always pave the way to happiness instead to that of pleasure. Give yourself the opportunity to be surrounded by people who are sincere, honest, unconditionally helpful and supportive persons rather than ‘vultures’, which only by your side for their own motives and which will desert you in your bad times, when your exhaustive monetary resources are gone!

Gold Diggers are people who have never been satisfied with what they possess and they exist only to serve and to worship Money to the detriment of GOD. A Gold Digger is someone who digs his own grave by turning their back to real things and to jump on and to illusory things.