Relationship and Gold Digger (When Money Euthanises Love, Trust and Truth)

A relationship is a bond which is ‘welded’ (firmly or loosely, depending on the importance attached to it) between two or more persons with the purpose of giving a meaning to the new link. A relationship can be in any sphere, irrespective of its nature.

Despite the fact that a relationship takes its foundation from elements like trust, love, mutual comprehension (understanding), compassion, compromise, passion, communication, to mention only a few, people do not hesitate to go against the above rule.

Love certainly blinds, but money, not only has it a blinding effect, but it also possess a vile power for obsession. Love is one of the constituents necessary for a true relationship to take shape; Money and Power are yet other elements which give birth to a relationship, a fake one.

Gold Digger! A Gold Digger is a person who is more focussed on a Mercenary motive, rather than that of trust and love. His/Her sole interest is monetary gain, nothing less and nothing more. A Gold Digger restricts himself/herself to the closed and small world where Money reigns.

Besides, a Gold Digger, term which I will subjectively define as being a person who evolves unscrupulously in the world of ‘Licit Prostitution’ by not bothering of not skimping on the means to get hold and to grip firmly to worldly wealth.

Moreover, the lust for money is so intense that the Gold Digger, who is also a Mercenary, prefers to sacrifice his/her existing valuable and ‘permanent’ relationship and to engage in a fake and ephemeral relationship which emerges because of the thirst for worldly materials.

As Money is the evil cause of all problems and as Money is the root for superficial pleasure, it will undoubtedly never ever procure happiness, health and intellectual wealth. Therefore, to avoid confusion, it is worth stating that pleasure is never happiness and vice versa.

As such, Gold Diggers will consciously bury their true relationship into the tombs they have dug and they prefer to enjoy with their blinded rich and ‘bling bling’ companion, with who they have webbed a relationship as fragile as the spider web itself and as illusory as the horizon.

Building a relationship with Money and Greed as its base is like:

1. Building a palace in a marshy land which will slowly but surely engulf the dream mansion.
2. Erecting a card palace outside the house and facing the windy weather which is undoubtedly sway away the cards in less than no time.
3. Building a sand castle on the beach where the sea is under the influenced of a maritime storm, which will pitilessly causing the waves to ‘dissolve’ the aforesaid castle.

Consequently, always think for the long term, rather than the short term. Always pave the way to happiness instead to that of pleasure. Give yourself the opportunity to be surrounded by people who are sincere, honest, unconditionally helpful and supportive persons rather than ‘vultures’, which only by your side for their own motives and which will desert you in your bad times, when your exhaustive monetary resources are gone!

Gold Diggers are people who have never been satisfied with what they possess and they exist only to serve and to worship Money to the detriment of GOD. A Gold Digger is someone who digs his own grave by turning their back to real things and to jump on and to illusory things.

To excel at full capacity; not during hard times, but all the time!

It is only in hard times that the ‘gears’ inside the grey matter work at their full capacity. No matter how weak or strong you are, but difficult situations surely make people to thrive for their survival or for them to see light at the end of the tunnel.

Call it apocalypse or by any name you want, but this situation whereby there exists the willingness and the determination to get out of the hole is a crucial time where enthusiasm is not necessarily linked to the same passion and excitement as it should been in any normal cases, but instead the situation is related to a mixture of feeling; that of being highly desperate to reach the shore after a shipwreck and to be as combative as a private in the war field in view to stay alive and to see his family once again.

It is a state whereby you cannot allow yourself to blame fate for it’s happening, but to play the last card which you hold in your hand. The end results in resolving a problem which you would have never thought to resolve in case there was not the siren call for urgency.

To this situation, scientists normally refer the abnormal, but yet normal and extraordinary boost to the secretion of a hormone known as adrenaline. However, adrenaline tends to reveal its ‘sight’ when fright has self-invited itself for an occasion, where its presence was unexpected and thus questioned!

Hence, forget about the psychological mind game and the scientific connotation. All we need to do in order for us to rich the stars and the moon is to always giving the best of ourselves, to maintain a constant flow of energy and to apply an optimal use the resources, which we normally waste or which is stay idle.

Motivation is what has given shape to many dreams. Confidence is what has given birth to motivation, which has opened the gate for success. This is an urgent need for action, a proof to the statement ‘when there is a will, there is a way’.